REAL TALK: We are Never Alone
Part 2
Like many of you, I do spend some time on social media and get exposed to different kind of quotes, sayings, advices and so on… And I’ve noticed that some people believe everything they read without questioning… and it really puzzles me! Like REALLY!! Not everything we read is us, or our thoughts or what we can handle “endure”… not every one can express how they feel correctly, or even can express their own emotions to their own selves! Never follow anything blindly… question, question, question these sayings and quotes and researches… dig deeper, and check if that is something that you can endure, apply or advocate for at the least!
POSTs “healing alone, being alone, coming out from suffering without anyone’s help.. are all signs of strength”
Some posts on social media talk about how being alone & healing alone is a strength… but!! Yes!! THERE IS A BUT!!! If the person is suffering from depression or doubtful thoughts and in general is not in a healthy mindset or state, being alone is never a good thing & is never a strength! WHY?
Because if that person needs help, and thinks that he or she needs to be strong and avoid talking about what is bothering them or hurting them, then they are putting themselves in more harm! They should ask for help or talk it through with someone. It is a sign of strength to be able to talk about what is bothering you when feeling sad, feeling depressed or experiencing troubled time. GOD created humans in different shapes, forms, and even purposes for a reason… some friends are for fun, some friends are for getting things done, some are good in making trouble when you need it, some are fixers and some friends are nurturers & compassionate filled with peace & serenity & wisdom and can help especially in troubled times and give you a different outlook for life. You are never alone and you don’t have to
Also, there are professionals that can help people with self understanding & expression so when one wants to be alone, one can know exactly what is happening inside, which thought to entertain & which thought to cutoff and tell yourself “stop, this thought is not serving my growth, my purpose, my peace or my progress in anyway”
Posts “Partners & Expectations of them” ex. a man who wants you will do… a healed man will treat you… a woman who loves a man will..
Posts about how to expect a partner to be! REALLY!!! That is on another level of crazy! First everyone is healing, constantly healing! Second, when it’s simple for someone to be with another, doesn’t matter the gender; female or male, if it’s simple in their head, then they will be with you… if it’s not simple in their head (meaning they are experiencing FEAR, projecting their own insecurities, they have unprocessed Trauma… etc) it will take time to happen, it will be messy, it will be crazy at days and too much on other days, the important thing here is that you have to decide is that person worth it?! And at the same time, remember your worth, be kind and also aware, be loving & have your boundaries.. and remember people are simply complicated creatures… we have emotions, thoughts, feelings, chemicals, we go through biological change that affects our moods. I really wish we were that simple as they write on social media posts. A good thing to also remember “you can never ruin something that is meant for you” it might take more time with mistakes. And looking at it from a positive outlook these mistakes will make you more aware of the person you are with (know their likes, dislikes, what makes one angry, what makes one react unfavorably… etc). When things take time, it does not mean that it’s not happening or you are not learning… and when things seem to be easy and fitting; it doesn’t always mean that it will last or you found your person… we are all living and doing the best we can.
Two days ago my sisters reminded me of something that is really simple & important… she told me “forget about the result, stop living in wanting the result and be present, you will notice the lesson… be here… take it day by day… and feel what your heart is telling you.. your heart can sense things and can send also vibrations & frequencies”… so if it’s love, feel the love, if it’s joy feel the joy… if it’s excitement fuel yourself with it… the heart is the core & base of everything, so imagine if you can manage to be aligned in the heart & in the mind… Magic can happen. And at the end, question everything, question this article as well, and test everything as well, check if they are for you, what can be applicable in your situation & if you are able to apply these lessons & new tools. Simply be true to yourself & your journey.
You are never alone,
